Some situations are too complex, too fragile, or too far gone to navigate alone with a video course.

90-Day Trust Rebuild

For the Christian husband who broke his wife's trust and is willing to do whatever it takes to get her back.

She's still here. But you can feel her leaving.

 Maybe the disclosure happened last week. Maybe it was two years ago and you've been white-knuckling it ever since — making promises, having good stretches, then watching the distance between you grow again.

You're not a bad man. But right now, you're a man without a roadmap. And your wife is running out of patience for you to find one.

The window is real. Research shows that without structured intervention, most couples dealing with betrayal trauma either flatline into a painful coexistence or divorce within three years.

Good intentions aren't a plan. Most men try to rebuild trust through better behavior alone. It doesn't work. Trust is rebuilt through a specific sequence of actions — and most men don't know what that sequence is.

She needs to see change, not hear about it. Your wife isn't waiting for another conversation. She's watching for proof. Without a framework, you'll keep having the same fights, hitting the same walls, and losing ground you can't afford to lose.

Sobriety ≠ Rebuilding Trust. Stopping the problem is not the same as healing the wounds.

It Doesn't Have To End This Way

I know what it's like to sit across from your wife and watch her try to decide if you're worth staying for.

One year into our marriage, everything came out. Everything I had hidden, lied about, and managed for over a decade. Sarah was 22 years old. She later told me she was sure she would never feel loved, cherished, or desired again.

I didn't have a guide. I didn't have a framework. I had a lot of remorse and no idea what to do with it.

What I did have — eventually — was a community of men who had walked this road, a counselor who helped me understand what I'd actually done to my wife's nervous system, and a process for doing the work in the right order.

Twelve years later, Sarah would tell you — and does in this video— that she feels more loved by me than she ever has. That she's more in love with me than she's ever been.

That is not a testimony about my character. It's a testimony about what God can do when a broken man stops managing the situation and starts doing the actual work.

"Trust is not something that is healed just with time. Time will grow the seeds that you plant." — Sarah Willis

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What is the 90-Day Trust Rebuild?

This is a structured, 90-day one-on-one coaching engagement for Christian husbands who are serious about rebuilding trust with their wives after betrayal.

It is not therapy. It's not a support group. It's a guided, step-by-step process built around the same framework inside the Rebuilding Trust course — applied specifically to your marriage, your situation, and your wife.

8 private coaching sessions over 90 days, roughly bi-weekly, via video call with Matt Willis.

Here's what that includes:

Personalized application of The Courage Reclaimed Trust Rebuild System™ — the same six-step framework from the course, mapped to exactly where you and your wife are right now. You won't be guessing what to do next.

Session summaries and between-session action steps — every session ends with clear, concrete next actions. No vague advice. No "just be more present." Real steps you can take this week.

A framework your wife can feel — the goal isn't for you to feel better about yourself. The goal is for her to experience something different from you. Every session is oriented toward that.

Optional session extensions — some men need more than 90 days. Additional sessions are available after the initial engagement with no pressure and no package requirement.

Who It's For?

This coaching is for you if:

  • You've done or are preparing to do a full disclosure  — and you're committed to staying and doing the work
  • You've tried on your own and keep hitting the same walls
  • Your wife has given you a chance, and you understand the weight of what that means
  • You're ready to stop managing the situation and start leading your family through it

This is not for you if:

  • You are still in active deception
  • You're looking for someone to validate your perspective in the conflict
  • You're not willing to be honest — with Matt, with your wife, or with yourself

The men who get the most out of this are the men who show up ready to be challenged, not just supported.

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I'm Matt

I'm a husband and father with a coach's heart. I'm also a man who spent over a decade trapped in pornography addiction — including the first year of my marriage.

When my wife Sarah found out, she was 22 years old. She later described feeling betrayed not just by me, but by God. She had done everything right. She had waited. And she found herself married to a sexual addict and a compulsive liar.

What followed was the hardest thing either of us has ever been through — and the most transformative.

Our journey took longer than it needed to because at first, we didn't have deep community, a good counselor or anyone who could guide us. We were flying blind. Many years later, I've now coached dozens of men on how to break free and rebuild trust.

Through years in recovery groups, professional counseling, and the kind of friendships that only get forged in fire, I've spent years tying together the latest science on betrayal trauma and addiction with what Scripture says about restoration, honesty, and what it actually means to become a trustworthy man.

What I've built is the roadmap I wish I'd had — a specific sequence that works because it addresses what your wife's nervous system actually needs, not just what makes you feel better about yourself.

That's what I bring into every coaching session.

"If the Son has set you free, you are free indeed."

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Total Investment: $2,997

Ryan Davis

"Matt stepped into my life at a time when things felt pretty unstable, and he became a steady presence when I needed it most. What stood out right away was how well he listened — nothing felt rushed or surface-level. At the same time, he wasn't passive. He asked the kind of questions that made me stop, think, and actually face what I'd been avoiding.

It never felt like he was talking down to me or pretending to have everything figured out. It felt more like walking with someone who's a few steps ahead and willing to be honest about the process.

Because of that, I've experienced real freedom from patterns that were keeping me stuck, rebuilt deep trust with my wife in a tangible way, and made meaningful progress in rebuilding my life with clarity and intention. I don't think I would have moved through this as quickly — or as honestly — without his help.

If someone is on the fence, I'd just say this: if you're willing to be honest and do the work, Matt is your guy."

What is Your Marriage Worth?

A single session with a licensed marriage therapist costs $150–$300. Eight sessions of specialized, framework-driven coaching with someone who has lived the betrayal, done the rebuilding work, and guided other men through it — is a different category of help entirely.

The 90-Day Trust Rebuild is $2,997 for the full engagement.

That is not a small number. But if you're asking whether your marriage is worth $2,997 and 90 days of focused, guided work — you already know the answer.

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The Next 90 Days Will Pass Either Way.

The only question is whether your wife sees something different in you on the other side of them.

If you're ready to stop figuring this out alone, let's talk. Not a sales call — just a conversation between two men about where you are and whether this is the right next step.

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