Two roadmaps.
One for breaking free. One for rebuilding what you broke.
You Know Something Has to Change.
You may not know exactly what to do next. But you know what you've been doing isn't working — and staying on this road costs you more than you can afford to lose.
You're not a bad man. But right now you're a man without a roadmap.
Below are two. One for breaking free from pornography and sexual addiction. One for rebuilding the trust you've broken with your wife. Start with where you are.
Breaking Free online courseÂ
What's Inside
Most men who struggle with pornography and sexual addiction have tried willpower. They've made promises, deleted apps, set filters, and white-knuckled their way through stretches of sobriety — only to end up back in the same place, more ashamed than before.
Sobriety isn't the same as freedom. This course is about freedom.
Over 3.5 hours of video teaching, I walk you through the same journey I took — from over a decade trapped in addiction through the first year of my marriage, to the moment everything came out, to the process of becoming a man who is actually free. Not managing. Free.
The course weaves my personal story with the latest research on addiction and recovery — which, as it turns out, aligns exactly with what Scripture has said all along.
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You'll walk away with:
- A clear understanding of why willpower alone has never worked — and what actually does
- The neurological and spiritual roots of sexual addiction explained in plain language
- A step-by-step framework for breaking the cycle, not just interrupting it
- Practical tools for the moments when temptation is loudest
- An honest picture of what genuine freedom looks like — and what the road to get there requires
This isn't a course about becoming perfect. It's a course about becoming honest — with God, with yourself, and eventually with the people you love.
Brandon D.
"I love Matt's proven experience and empathy for the journey that many men face, especially as someone relatively young and understands the unique challenges of someone under 40. He has a great framework for recovery that has been drawn from his own experience and many other great resources. Personally, I was challenged to focus more on the seemingly "little things" in my recovery journey that I've previously overlooked. Great course for anyone starting out in recovery or even wanting another perspective."
B.G.
"Matt gets me. After years of struggling, he helped me understand what I need to do and why. It’s encouraging to hear I'm not alone in this!"
Jacob C.
"Imagine yourself on the other side. What one man can do, so can you. Hearing about the process and the journey gives some real-life encouragement to those who are stuck. Feeling trapped in a self-made prison is a unique kind of pain. The road to healing is tough, but worth it! I think this course really tells it like it is. With hope, grace and a group of other brothers is how it’s done! Always remember that you got into this mess on your own, the best (and maybe only) way out is in community."
Rebuilding Trust online courseÂ
What's Inside
When trust breaks in a marriage, most men default to one of two responses: they minimize what happened and hope time fixes it, or they spiral into shame and become emotionally paralyzed. Neither works. Both cost you ground you can't afford to lose.
Trust is not rebuilt through better behavior alone. It's rebuilt through a specific sequence of actions over time — and most men never learn what that sequence is. This course teaches it.
Over 3.5 hours of video teaching, I lay out the Trust Rebuild System — the same framework I wish I'd had when my wife Sarah found out everything I had hidden from her. The same framework that, twelve years later, she credits for why she feels more loved and more in love than she ever has.Â
You'll walk away with:
- A clear understanding of what betrayal trauma actually does to your wife's nervous system — and why your instincts for fixing it are probably making it worse
- The six-step Trust Rebuild framework, explained in sequence so you always know what the next right move is
- The difference between remorse and repentance — and why your wife can tell the difference even when you can't
- How to handle setbacks without losing all the ground you've built
- A picture of what a restored marriage actually looks like — not just surviving, but genuinely thriving
This course won't fix your marriage. What it will do is give you the roadmap. The work is yours to do.
Steven S.
"This course is such an incredible resource and practical guide, and I would highly recommend it to those who have broken trust with their spouse, no matter where they are at in the journey. Matt’s approach allowed me to feel understood while also encouraging me to not stay where I am."
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I want to be honest with you about what you're getting here — and what you're not.
These courses give you the roadmap. A clear, sequenced framework built from years of research, recovery, and coaching dozens of men through exactly what you're facing. What the research shows, what Scripture says, and what actually works — laid out in plain language so you're never guessing what the next right step is.
What they can't do is take the steps for you.
The men who get the most out of these courses are the ones who show up ready to be honest — with the material, with God, and with themselves. If that's you, this is where to start.
If you want the framework applied directly to your specific situation and your wife's specific wounds, that's what coaching is for.
Some Men Need More Than a Roadmap
The courses give you the framework. For many men, that's exactly what they need to get moving.
But some situations are too complex, too fragile, or too far gone to navigate alone with a video course.
If your wife is running out of patience, if you keep hitting the same walls, or if you've already tried doing this on your own and it isn't working — that's what the 90-Day Trust Rebuild is for.
It's the same framework from the course, applied specifically to your marriage, your wife's wounds, and the real-time challenges that come up week to week. Eight 1x1 sessions over 90 days.
A guide, not just a map.
Learn more about the 90-Day Trust Rebuild
