How to Break Free from Porn/Sex Addiction
Freedom is possible, even if you've "tried everything"
You've struggled long enough to know...
You're missing something.
You keep going back to the same pattern but don't know why.
Athletes have patterns, so do executives, actors, speakers and... everyone else.
When change is non-negotiable, people hire coaches to them identify and replace unhelpful patterns with good ones.
Coaching is for men who are committed enough to freedom that they'll do whatever it takes to find and maintain it.
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Everyone struggles... It'll be a struggle this side of heaven... Just read your bible and pray more... Am I missing any?
These well-intended mantras left me without hope that anything could actually get better. So I did nothing until my marriage was on the brink of divorce. By the time I started trying, I had no idea what else to try.
You may not know exactly what to do next. But you know what you've been doing isn't working — and staying on this road costs you more than you can afford to lose.
You're not a bad man. But right now you're a man without a roadmap.
The Breaking Free online course marries Scripture and research into the very roadmap that helped me — and countless others — find actual freedom.
What's It Like?
Most men who struggle with pornography and sexual addiction have tried willpower. They've made promises, deleted apps, set filters, and white-knuckled their way through stretches of sobriety — only to end up back in the same place, more ashamed than before.
Sobriety isn't the same as freedom. Coaching is about freedom.
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We'll meet for 90-minute sessions where we'll unpack questions around identity, purpose, what's holding you back and what's it costing you.
Each session you'll walk away with:
- Clear next steps on how to continue growing toward freedom.
- Limiting beliefs, what they're costing you and how to change them.
- Practical tools for the moments when temptation is loudest
- An honest picture of what genuine freedom looks like — and what the road to get there requires
A note if your marriage is part of this story.
I offer coaching for breaking porn addiction AND rebuilding your broken marriage. Coaching bundles interchangeableÂ
Brandon D.
"I love Matt's proven experience and empathy for the journey that many men face, especially as someone relatively young and understands the unique challenges of someone under 40. He has a great framework for recovery that has been drawn from his own experience and many other great resources. Personally, I was challenged to focus more on the seemingly "little things" in my recovery journey that I've previously overlooked. Great course for anyone starting out in recovery or even wanting another perspective."
B.G.
"Matt gets me. After years of struggling, he helped me understand what I need to do and why. It’s encouraging to hear I'm not alone in this!"
Jacob C.
"Imagine yourself on the other side. What one man can do, so can you. Hearing about the process and the journey gives some real-life encouragement to those who are stuck. Feeling trapped in a self-made prison is a unique kind of pain. The road to healing is tough, but worth it! I think this course really tells it like it is. With hope, grace and a group of other brothers is how it’s done! Always remember that you got into this mess on your own, the best (and maybe only) way out is in community."
 These Courses Won't Do the Work For You
I want to be honest with you about what you're getting here — and what you're not.
These courses give you the roadmap. A clear, sequenced framework built from years of research, recovery, and coaching dozens of men through exactly what you're facing. What the research shows, what Scripture says, and what actually works — laid out in plain language so you're never guessing what the next right step is.
What they can't do is take the steps for you.
The men who get the most out of these courses are the ones who show up ready to be honest — with the material, with God, and with themselves. If that's you, this is where to start.
